First of all, welcome! As to your question about why the forum looks odd, I'm not sure, it is probably just a quirk of the software they use for the board. You'll get used to it pretty quick. As to your questions, I'll try to answer them in a reasonably short amount of words, but there are many more ways to skin a cat. Yur best bet is to keep it simple, and be flexible in material and methods, and you will do fine. First off, it sounds like you want to do relatively low-temp casts , so silicone molds and an electric pot melter may be your best choice. If you want to do anything higher temp, like the occasional aluminum melt, you will want to probably use either a solid fuel or gas furnace. So, to totally confuse you and overgeneralize a lot, here's your answers in order:
1: Investment or silicone mold casting will probably be your best bet with pewter. Investment (think lost wax) will be more expensive to set up initially, but in the long run may give you better results.
2: Again, depends on what you are trying to do. Pewter would work fine, so would aluminum and brass. The nice thing about aluminum and brass is that they don't cost $10 a pound, and can be readily found locally in most places. Drawback is that sili9cone molds won't work, you will definately have to use investment or greensand of some type.
3:Yes, with a few disclaimers. If you are using any thing other than electricity to melt with, MAKE SURE YOU HAVE ADEQUATE VENTILATION!! Also, make sure the area you will be pouring and melting are fire-safe in case of spills or accidents. Safety first. Common sense will go a long way here.
4: All of it.

You can never have too much equipment. Packrat rule #1. Really, it depends ultimately on what type of casting you decide to do. When you figure that out, further reccomendations can be made.
5: Gobs. The list is long and growing. Anything by Ammens, although he is more towards the sandcasting end of the spectrum. The Gingery books are good, Steve Chastain, etc. Check your local library, they might have something.
6: Again, it depends. Yuo can go either way, sink your life savings in to it or have fun and see what you can do for zilch. They both work, depends on where your mind set is. If you buy your metal in ingot form from an actual supplier you will be paying drastically more than most of us who cast with whatever the heck we can lay our grubby little hands on.
Hopefully this helped, if I haven't thoroughly confused you further. best answer I can give you is research the heck out of the project that interests you, and see if you can narrow the scope of your questions a bit, and we can be a bit more specific with answers. Good luck!